Should I Hold onto the Ex or Let Him Go?

Dear Zuri:

I don’t know what to do! I have never been so depressed with my life on a male subject, ever! Me and M started seeing each other Christmas just gone. Everything was fine at first until he broke it to me that he was going away for 2 weeks with 15 of his single rugby friends. I don’t know, but my world felt like it had ended. As he would be the only attached person on holiday I felt like his mates (who I don’t trust 1 bit!) would be trying to push him in to things.

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Tips to Score a Second Date

Making a great first impression is the key to ensuring that your phone number is committed to memory for a second date and not tossed in the recycle bin. These tips will help secure your invitation to their weekend plans and keep you on their mind for weeks to come.

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Jumping Back into the Dating Scene

Dear Zuri:

After ending a five year relationship, I find myself newly single and out of practice with the dating scene. Where are some creative places to meet new people?

Thanks!
MB 2/78

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Leaving Skidmarks on Your Way Out of a Relationship

Breaking up is never easy and can feel like a part of you has died. You may hear your songs playing on the radio, hold onto a gift they once gave you or keep their pictures lying around your room as a constant reminder of their emotional presence in your life, even if physically they have left the building days, weeks or months ago. No one needs to tell you how difficult it is to stop thinking about them and as the days multiply, you’ll find yourself wondering if you’ll ever be able to get over them and love someone else with as much intensity as you felt for the ex. I’m here to tell you that you will. Healing occurs from the inside out. With my guide to moving on from your ex, you’ll get through the detox process necessary to heal and chart your course to smooth sailing on the deep waters of your love life again.

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Spotting the Signs of Infidelity

Is it a Bad Case of Chinese Take Out or Your Intuition Sending You an SOS that There’s Trouble in Romantic Paradise?

At one point, everyone may experience that sick, stomach churning feeling, alerting them that something in their relationship is wrong. They may dismiss it as an overactive imagination, paranoia or a case of bad chinese take out from the night before. However, when they notice that those uncertain feelings linger for weeks and maybe even months, they realize that it is not a situation that can be ignored. Your emotions are the one real friend you can always count on to tell you the truth, no matter how much it hurts. Whether it’s intuition sending you a telegram that trouble is brewing in romantic paradise or simply an acute subconscious connection to the vibrations in your environment, those signs of infidelity need to be listened to and investigated.

For the seeker of truth behind the suspicious behavior and actions of their partners, I’ve composed a guide to spotting infidelity to give you a starting point in your PI work.

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