Three Strikes & You Are Out: Are His Words Grounded in Truth?

Dear Zuri:

My question is about a man I met over 5 months ago. He calls me every day, saying he loves me and wants to marry me. He lives in another country called Dubai and has said three times that he will come see me. However he never shows up. Whenever this happens, I get angry and tell him that he is a liar. He is upset that I don’t understand him. I am really confused because I do not know what is he up to. Is he being honest? Please help. I cannot sleep or eat well wondering if I should trust him or let him go. I have been hurt by my ex and I do not want be hurt again.

SJ 8/83 and MK 79

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Can Our Relationship Survive the Time Apart?

Dear Zuri:

My question is regarding my relationship with my partner. We currently separated on March 14, 2008 after being together for 5 years. We are still living together. My partner states that she needs time (not space) to work on herself. She has issues such as anger management, patience, and self-esteem that she would like to work on.

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