Friday, May 30th, 2008
Some people are so blinded by their own feelings that they don’t see or ignore the warning signs of an impending breakup. Or, they see the flashing red lights of their intuition signaling that something is not quite right but don’t know if it’s a rough patch that can be worked out or that the relationship is over. Break ups are never easy but being forewarned is forearmed so you can move on to greener pastures and leave your soon to be ex in the dust. Here are the top eight warning signs that your lover is about to give you the boot.
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Friday, May 30th, 2008
Changes, whether it results from a break up, personal problems or loss of a job, can cause a person to lose their center and flounder while they try to find their footing. Some embrace the change as a way to move forward and try a new path. Others become paralyzed by the fear of change and allow it to control them. So, they look for stability outside of themselves and rely on others for security. Many people look to relationships and other people, experiences, and events to rescue them. The truth is they need to rescue themselves. By rescuing themselves, they strengthen their relationship with themselves, increase their self confidence and build real love. There is a beauty in developing an independent spirit and that will always attract like-minded people to their life.
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Saturday, May 24th, 2008
Dear Zuri:
My ex-boyfriend recently broke up with me about 2-3 weeks ago. I had a lot of firsts with him, sexually, emotionally, etc. He had nothing when I met him — all he did was play video games all day long, everyday. After he met me, he got a job, and I helped him learn how to do things for himself (iron clothes, chores, etc). His insecurities would surface when I was not around him because he would get child-like and selfish. After a couple of months, I lost my job and he wanted me to not work for a while so he could help take care of me and my finances. But, shortly after, he decided to quit working. So we were both out of work, and he wanted to spend all our time together at his house.
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Tuesday, May 6th, 2008
Dear Zuri:
Why do I still love him? I met D nearly two years ago. He was nice to start with, very loving and kind. Then we moved in together and he became someone I didn’t know. He didn’t like me seeing my mates, family, anyone. He has hurt me by throwing things at me, got into debt at my house and even took my old wedding rings. So why do I still want him?
JT 4/64 and DT 8/65
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