Looking for Love in a 2 Personal Year

Hi Zuri:

I’ve been divorced now for four years and I’m ready for new love to enter my life. Will I find that special someone this year?

Thanks,
Betty

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Recurring Dream of Butterflies

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Dear Zuri:
I’ve been having recurring dreams of butterflies flying out of my window. What does that mean?
- Rachel

Dear Rachel:
Each symbol in a dream is very personal to the dreamer so it may take some additional research into what each aspect of the dream means to you.  Generally, a dream featuring butterflies speaks of transformations and changes in a person’s life.

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Is a Recently Ended Relationship Better Left in the Past?

Dear Zuri:

I’ve recently had a breakup with my boyfriend M.  Do you see us reconciling in the near future or are we better off letting each other go?

Thanks!
Angela

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Dating a Man-Child: Can a Booty-Call Relationship Evolve into a Serious Commitment?

Dear Zuri:

Earlier this month I went out clubbing with my friends and ended up kissing a guy. We exchanged phone numbers and met again at a club the following weekend. He called me afterwards to meet again for drinks, but I didn’t want this to end up being a hooking up based relationship so I asked him to meet for coffee instead. We had a great time and he asked me if he could see me again. Each time we would speak he never offered something to do, so I took it upon myself to organize the dates. I planned a date that consisted of going to an art gallery (free) and later a walk through a park (free) to show him there is such a thing as an economical date.

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Is a Guy Suffering from Emotional Impotence Worth Waiting For?

Dear Zuri:

M used to be my boss a few years ago when he was going through a very nasty divorce. I quit and had no contact with him until 9 months ago when he just walked up and began kissing me at his Pub. We began dating and became exclusive immediately. After 4 months, we had a blow up and broke up. A month later, he emailed me inviting me over for wine and we got back together. A few weeks later we broke up again over miscommunication. A month after that we reconnected but decided to take things slow, mostly due to him being extremely stressed about his failing business, investments and his father’s health. He didn’t know it at the time, but he was suffering from depression.

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