Is a Guy Suffering from Emotional Impotence Worth Waiting For?

Dear Zuri:

M used to be my boss a few years ago when he was going through a very nasty divorce. I quit and had no contact with him until 9 months ago when he just walked up and began kissing me at his Pub. We began dating and became exclusive immediately. After 4 months, we had a blow up and broke up. A month later, he emailed me inviting me over for wine and we got back together. A few weeks later we broke up again over miscommunication. A month after that we reconnected but decided to take things slow, mostly due to him being extremely stressed about his failing business, investments and his father’s health. He didn’t know it at the time, but he was suffering from depression.

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Finding Mr Right in a Romantic Drought: Is a New Relationship on the Horizon?

Dear Zuri:

I have been alone now for two and a half years. I’m interested in meeting someone who will bring me happiness as a friend and lover. When am I going to meet my future romantic partner? Do I know him already?

Thank you!
MQ 3/58

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The Emotional Risk of Internet Romance

Dear Zuri:

I met my ex in an online game in July of last year and we never really spoke to one another until a few months later when he asked me a question about stuff pertaining to the occult, which is a subject we’re both interested in. As the days and weeks passed we grew closer and fell in love. For about 6 months we couldn’t get enough of each other, seeing each other on msn and webcam whenever we could get a chance, staying up till the early hours of the morning talking. Soon after he became distant and told me that he needed his space.

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