Cutting Through the Illusions of an Affair with a Drug Addict

Dear Zuri:

S and I were involved in an affair that has lasted over three years. Although we resisted the attraction for a long time, it happened. His marriage with his wife has been in trouble long before I came on the scene. His wife found out about us just over two years ago and has gone back and forth between taking him back and ending it.

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Are You in a Toxic Relationship?

It’s often difficult to see your own relationship health clearly when you are the star in your own drama. It may take a loving friend or family member to point out the imbalance and abuse that is going on. Abuse does not always just take the form of physical violence but can also surface in the form of verbal or emotional abuse through neglect, manipulation, control, bullying or even belittling type of behavior. If you’ve ever wondered if you are the victim of a toxic relationship, check out these warning signs.

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